Expectations always come as a surprise from others, directly hiiting us right at the heart and mind starts running at the speed of say a hundred n twenty kms/hr to jus reach that!! We too expect a lot from ourselves n thats not a bad thing coz all f us have to grow...
But matters become worse when we expect a lot from the other side creating a 'havoc' when the balance between two sides expecting a lot from each other is just not right. Well think about unexpected things happening in our lives..now they usually make us happy or at least leave us surprised in a better way. Probably teach us many emotions, a feel of a thing, a feeling that everything is so relative around and we just don't have to keep judging things and ruin the moments!!
Ah! bottom line is probably its not a good idea to always run from unexpected things rather embrace all the memories created by mind and cherished by heart...Helps building a better and bright side of the so called monotonous LIFE.