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Courage and confidence with a pinch of self esteem and a little ego makes a good recipe for probable success...rest blame it on fate may be..:)

Thursday, September 2, 2010

Incompatibility....

Judging people and incompatibility issues are quite common in work fields and in personal life too. Is is possible to be good to all n expect least from them in terms of encouragement and at least professional courtesy??

Well it becomes so tough at times when you try seeing a positive aspect in a human being and try to cling to it for the sake of keeping things the right way but....the other side is so busy calculating your negativity and flaws or at least try seeing it even if it doesn't exist, it turns out to be so sour a thing to gulp. But i have seen individuals, rather called proper sadists who can smile and keep the conversation going but always with a dagger to stab you anytime, given an option ...hmm...bad thing... 
All my years i have walked on this earth, i fail to gather the faintest idea bout how to cope with such people and be calm as i am always!!

Best thing is "IGNORE" but doesn't work instantly...What would be the state of mind when you just can't tolerate a thing as "you" being a human and surrounded by multiple confusions in life n want to see things simple... U just want to scream out Loud...."LIVE n LET LIVE".....ah..feel better.

3 comments:

  1. That was a really good one, i have tried my hand at psychology to understand the disturbances in life, and i have concluded one thing, "Situations do not bring reactions with them, how a person reacts is always in his/her own hand" and the best part is its so hard to put this into practice. Whenever things go awful I keep telling myself, 'buddy you have come this far just hold on a bit longer, nothing's gonna last forever :-), basically I am a firm believer that Nature follows Normal distribution' may be its a way of giving into situations but one can still remain afloat of this mortal world.

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  2. hmmm...quite an enlightenment though...n m hopeful that thr are ppl in this world who think that things can be better....

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  3. well that was something from swamiji...... :-)

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